Chose Your Words Carefully

Be careful how you chose your words.  We are often unaware of just how much of a difference our words can make in the outcome of our life.

Sometimes holding your tongue in a difficult situation can be daunting.  There are times when I know I should "bite my tongue" and not say a word, yet it is as if my tongue is about to be bit right off.  It is a matter of self control and character I suppose.

It is good practice to make sure we understand the benefits as well as the repercussions of what is coming out of our mouth so we don't end up regretting what we say.  It is important to think before we speak.

In addition, we must be aware of how what we say will be interpreted.  This is a main component of our communication as we may think we are making sense while our audience may understand something contrary to what we intended.

Our tongue is a dangerous tool which can be used to build up as well as tear down.  It must be used with great diligence and skill.  Otherwise we risk living with the damage it has done.

Comments

[Hélène Vallée]

What you say about the power of the tongue, the effect of miscommunication and the importance of considering our words before they're spoken is so true. That is why listening is of tantamount importance. When we listen to our audience's response, we have the opportunity to clarify any misunderstanding. And we have the opportunity, in turn, to ensure we have understood the listener's response. Personally, I find it can often take from 3 to 5 iterations of the information before I feel the person I am conversing with and I truly have clear communication.

Keep up the good posts!

[JD Lusan]

Thank you for such a great comment. There is something to learn there. I appreciate comments that teach.

[Tony Masiello]

Very true. Once the words are out, nothing can take them back. My son lived in Jacksonville while going to Law School. We made one trip back to watch him graduate. Can you say 'sudden torrential rain showers?'

[JD Lusan]

Thank you for commenting Tony. You are correct: you can't take back what you say. Even after an apology the damage has been done. I suppose we will strive to say the right things as often as we can.

It does rain pretty often here. Currently the weather is quite nice though. :-)

[irtiza]

hi, i was looking for blogs like this and happy to find yours.

yes, u r right. choosing words carefully is as important as speaking (if not more) and i know exactly what you mean by "bite my tongue"

peace. thanks

[JD Lusan]

Irtiza, thank you for posting your comment. I know many of us go through having to "bite our tongue". I already had to experience it again today, and it is pretty early in the day. LOL